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I wanted to write a dedicated post to thank anyone and everyone who’s visited my blog, bought a book, read a book on Kindle Unlimited or followed me on Twitter. Y’all are amazing and it honestly humbles me how many people I’ve managed to connect with.
There’s a pretty big chance you’ve stumbled across my website whilst searching for information about the mystical, elusive and magical Holy Grail of the “Hands Free Orgasm”. It’s my most popular post. I never thought it would be but I hope the post has helped a few people in their investigations into journey of self-pleasure and discovery.
Ok, I’ll admit even I was cynical about the possibility of a male HFO (the accepted abbreviation for a Hands Free Orgasm) until it happened to me. Several times.
The first time I even looked into coming without using your hands or touching yourself was when I had a small tear on my ‘banjo string’ (frenulum for all you medical types). I was desperately horny but didn’t want to risk any kind of extra friction lest I end up shooting blood instead of my load. Lube was out of the question as it stung but I really wanted to get off.
For the final part of this series I wanted to close by hearing any suggestions anyone else has. Perhaps things I’ve not yet tried such as swinging, sex clubs, erotic getaways or anything else I might have missed. If it’s something that interests you, let your other half know-they can only say yes or no. And you never know, it may be something which has been on their list too.
I think I’ve saved one of the juiciest and most ‘out there’ suggestion till the end of my ideas. It’s exactly like it says in the title. Preferably with your other half.
There a quite a few dominatrixes who offer ‘couples’ sessions. During which they will teach you various aspects of the BDSM culture. They may ask you about hard and soft limits and what you are hoping to gain from the the experience.
You may also decide to visit separately and then share your experience later but I’d be worried of that old relationship killer jealousy rearing their ugly head and biting you afterwards. For peace of mind, and to really understand what your partner wants as a submissive, I would suggest you go together-even if one of you merely watches and learns.
This one can be tricky ground to negotiate but let’s take a look at some of the pros and cons.
If you’re reading this blog I can assume you’re already at least a little bit kinky. If so, you’ve probably taken at least a few sexy pics or videos of yourself, your other half or both of you at the same time. If not, that would be step one.
This is such a simple idea some of you may already be doing it but I wanted to share some thoughts which I’ve found to be as important as any of the others in this list when it comes to exploring new things, if not more.
Stupid. Little. Gifts.
Ah, shopping. It divides couples, stresses everyone out and reminds you why you don’t like leaving the house during daylight hours. That last one may just be me but you get my point-shopping is rarely fun.
Fast forward to the digital age and it’s a whole different entity. We can browse Amazon in our underwear, pick through beautiful, custom made prezzies on etsy in our pyjamas and-the crux of this article-look at a bewildering amount of sex toys without actually having to admit what we’re secretly into.
Monogamy is, what appears to be, one of those cheesy board game ideas for couples which would result in more embarrassment and laughter than any sexy times. At least, that’s what I thought. I’m so glad I was wrong.
After you’ve been with a partner a long enough time you’ll probably own nearly every sex toy you could ever need. And then some. And some free ones which get sent with the ones you actually ordered. So what are you going to do when you’re browsing a site like Lovehoney or Bondara and you’re stuck for ideas?