Adult Games To Play With Your Other Half Number 1: Cock Hero

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As you ‘settle’ into a relationship, it can be hard to suggest new things to try out in the bedroom (and beyond!) As such, I want to share a few little things me and my other half have tried.

I’m going to write 7 (I just love that number) articles over the coming weeks. Hopefully it might give you some ideas to jump start your imagination. If they help anyone or spark even a tiny conversation between a couple I will consider my job here as done.

The first thing I’m going to be trying to analyse/describe is a porn video phenomenon know as ‘Cock Hero’. It’s premise is similar to the video games ‘guitar hero’ in that you play notes to the beat. Only in cock hero the ‘notes’ you are playing would be your dick. There’s a much better description on Girlonthenets blog.

To sum up, it’s a really fun concept and some of the videos have a computer game theme (NSFW link) or storyline to entertain you along the way.

For me, it helps to give pornography watching a purpose with my other half. Obviously porn has a purpose but cock hero goes one step further. Stick with me on this one.
My other half is not a fan of traditional pornography. She recognises it’s exploitative and false nature (in the majority, not all!) and she doesn’t use visual stimuli to get herself off even when she’s alone ‘taking care of business.’ As such, even good quality porn doesn’t really do much for her.

In complete opposition to this, I love pornography-especially the amateur, real kind as featured on my links page. I know it’s an obvious thing to say as a male, but I love how pussies look. How a woman’s body looks and moves when being pleasured. The surprise ending of how much will the guy cum and where. I enjoy it all, sometimes maybe too much which I will write about in a future post regarding the problems of current pornography.

Watching porn together doesn’t do much for my partner. But with Cock Hero, it doesn’t have to. The entire experience becomes about my enjoyment and a bit of a game. How long can I last, how much can she tease me, will I make it to the end and how much control she has over me at that moment.

I feel so blessed she was willing to give it a go and it has become something we’ve ‘played together’ more than once. I’ve been able to find particular videos which we can enjoy together, such as larger ladies or more amateur/alternative girls (both NSFW links-watch out for the owls in the second video-you have been warned!) so that she isn’t sitting there comparing herself to the impossible physiques gracing the screen in traditional (especially American) porn. The added bonus of these videos is that plus sized women’s flesh moves beautifully and hypnotically during the repetitive movements of sex. There also seems to be more enthusiasm with larger ladies on screen (again, not always) and this translates to both of us having a running commentary over which girls we would find hot and who would serve best as a fantasy third party should they join us.

This brings me to my two favourite aspects of cock hero. As they are all montage type movies, with lots of girls and guys on screen, it gives us plenty of chances to discover which of us is into what types and it’s led to some interesting discoveries. I also adore looking at other girls and guys in her presence instead of alone. Something about it just feels…naughty for lack of a better word.

The second thing, which was surprising to me, was the ‘highlight’ of any cock hero video is when you’re ‘not allowed’ to touch yourself. Sometimes in between ‘rounds’ or every so often there is a command to ‘stop’. Normally issued with authority as if some ill fate would befall you should you choose to ignore said instruction. This request is most often during a black screen but on my preferred Cock Hero videos the action is still taking place on screen.

I love how helpless this makes me feel when I give her ‘power of attorney’ over my dick. If I was watching porn alone I would either continually pleasure myself or ‘edge’ but I would know when I was starting or stopping, I would have full control over it.
When she’s the one matching the beats to stroke my cock I’m completely at her mercy. She decides how hard she’s going to grip me. Whether she wants to stroke the entire distance of my desperate length or if she feels like focussing her attention on my sensitive head or, if she’s feeling particularly sadistic, she’ll let go and toy with just the base or my balls.

This results in one of two situations: me begging her to stop because I might come too soon or wishing she would go faster or slower to a particular scene.

This definitely plays in to my submissive mindset and it often feels like a safe fantasy version of being merely a voyeur whilst she plays with another guy or girl right in front of me. Watching her face contorted in pleasure as I’m unable to join in till she decides I’m allowed. Her voice teasing me about how much fun she’s having. How hot this girl is. How nice this guys cock feels as it stretches her. This situation would obviously present a myriad of problems in real life which is why Cock Hero will continue to tick these fantasy boxes for me within a safe play space in our living room. It also means snacks and refreshments are consistently available during proceedings.

So, in my opinion, Cock Hero is a great way to explore some slight domination aspects to your relationship if it’s something you struggle to open up about and also a great way to make pornography more fun. You could even record your ‘best times’ on particular videos and try to beat them (pun intended) at another time. Thereby giving you an excuse to suggest watching porn together. Who knows, it might become a regular Saturday night thing. It definitely beats watching whatever terrible gameshow the television is currently trying to promote to keep you ‘entertained’ whilst actually boring you to tears.

The only bug bear she does have is the idea of the ‘money shot’ in the mouth or over the face, which I tend to agree with-I much prefer seeing cum splashed over breasts, bodies or inside a woman but unfortunately, facial cum shots are a mainstay of the cock hero genre. If anyone has found a Cock Hero without any facial shots please let me know below.

As a final note there are a few limited ‘couples cock hero’ videos. The two best examples I’ve found are here and here (once again NSFW). The first one is quite fun and suggests different ‘tasks’ during the various rounds to keep you both involved. There’s also some fun grammar mistakes in the second one and a scene at 14 minutes in which will make you wonder: what is that guy doing in the background? What’s his story?

So there you have it: Cock Hero. Something to suggest to your other half. And a post that contained more quotation marks than anything I’ve ever typed. If you give it a go comment below with how it went. Even if it resulted in a swift kick in the shins at the mere suggestion for being a dirty pervert.

Cock Hero: For those who want to beat their meat to the beat whilst they enjoy a seat and possibly eat a bag of Quality Street as a treat.

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